Quilting the Empty Nest
My 2 kids took off for college recently - so I'm in "empty nest syndrome." I guess I thought ENS was just for those without paid jobs, who now find themselves devoted to dusting, or possibly going wild. It turns out I'm not the only employed mom noticing a major life transition here. Everyone I spoke with said male partners did not experience "empty nest" the same way. Previous EQ rants have been about women & child-bearing: Erin's choosing not to have kids, & Liz's Mommy Wars?, & having lots of kids. We hope a certain someone will write about medical ignorance of breastfeeding. So how come kids (or not kids) are still so defining in women's lives? Please click on "comments" & explain. Meanwhile, enjoy my latest version of going wild: blocks (click to enlarge) from a quilt I'm making for myself, having made one for each kid. Quilting helps me feel re-connected to all the women who have gone before. -Bonnie









