"Oh. Ummmm, that's nice!" Cue the polite smiles, raised eyebrows, and slightly tilted heads: I've just informed someone of what I'm doing this summer.
This is a tame reaction, generally received from friends of my parents. Close friends have outright laughed in my face, mocking me to no end for choosing to work on "man-hating stuff" for the summer. Granted, my group of friends specializes in sarcasm and gently making fun of one another (builds character!), but this was something I was not expecting. One friend in particular even felt the need to post on my facebook that he had been searching for this very blog, so he could "have something to laugh at while he was at work." (Tom, I hope you found it!)
People have laughed, told me to get a real job, and felt entitled to make fun of my "feminist gig" simply because they're tucked safely away in their cubicles, putting in their 9 to 5 plugging numbers into an Excel spreadsheet. And that's completely fine by me. I don't feel the need (nor do I feel entitled) to ridicule my friends who are interning for law firms, accounting firms, engineering companies, nannying, or teaching art classes this summer. To each their own.
So what is it about feminism, or women's rights (as I was informed is a less socially aggravating way to describe my work), that still gets people all riled up? I find it fascinating that well-read, well-educated, and generally in the know individuals still associate feminism with bra-burning and man-bashing.
Not only that, but young girls of today still have these associations as well. Which then got me all hot and bothered about how (or if?) feminism is being taught and described to young girls in today's society.
For example, I picked up my little sister and her friend from an arts camp at a local high school. As I was driving them home, the friend (pretty randomly, now that I think about it) asked me what exactly it was that I'm doing this summer. Faced with the task of describing my work to a twelve year old, I went with my standard "Oh, I'm interning for the Minnesota Women's Consortium, a non-profit that focuses on women's rights in Minnesota."